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We're just pretty imaginative. We imagine ourselves I'm all sorts of scenarios

4:25 PM

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We're just pretty imaginative. We imagine ourselves I'm all sorts of scenarios

@Atlas ˗ˏˋM&M´ˎ˗ - jump like for example you are inagining yourself talking on discord right now

I am imagining eating a cheesborgor

@Atlas ˗ˏˋM&M´ˎ˗ - jump the one with 16g of protein or something?

KiTTiKaTTy( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧

I am imagining eating a cheesborgor

@Atlas ˗ˏˋM&M´ˎ˗ - jump the one with 16g of protein or something?

16GB of protein

A long kiss goodnight

I'm a tulpa myself, ask me anything

any advice for me (its my first day of tuplamancy , im the host) . I read alot about different methods.What would u have liked your host to do that they maybe didnt do correctly in the first week so i could use said advice and use it to draw out my tupla and make it feel happy

The most important thing I can tell you is if you ever come across something you think doesn't make sense or seems unreasonable, you don't have to follow it. Tulpa guides are meant to be suggestions, not hard set-in-stone how to guides. As for our early days- we definitely had a lot of issues when we started out. I think the most critical points are the following:

Tulpamancy shouldn't be stressful. If it is at any point, feel free to ask for help.
If you have any mental health conditions, I recommend a medical safety net (therapist, medication, etc.) while practicing
You ultimately get to decide who stays or not in your system. It's possible to work things out. How you all run your system is up to you

Otherwise, there was one time Gray accidentally muted me (lol), but honestly I have no idea how he managed to do that and I have never heard of anyone else talk about it. I think the typical as long as your tulpa is saying something that makes sense, you're on the right track (edited)

A long kiss goodnight

The most important thing I can tell you is if you ever come across something you think doesn't make sense or seems unreasonable, you don't have to follow it. Tulpa guides are meant to be suggestions, not hard set-in-stone how to guides. As for our early days- we definitely had a lot of issues when we started out. I think the most critical points are the following:

Tulpamancy shouldn't be stressful. If it is at any point, feel free to ask for help.
If you have any mental health conditions, I recommend a medical safety net (therapist, medication, etc.) while practicing
You ultimately get to decide who stays or not in your system. It's possible to work things out. How you all run your system is up to you

Otherwise, there was one time Gray accidentally muted me (lol), but honestly I have no idea how he managed to do that and I have never heard of anyone else talk about it. I think the typical as long as your tulpa is saying something that makes sense, you're on the right track (edited)

thank u, i will incorporate your info : )

Sure, no problem! Good luck!

agh! im trying do hard

11:00 PM

*so

11:00 PM

i talked a bit more to her

11:01 PM

but i am having trouble keeping my thoughts together

11:01 PM

a song keeps repeating in my head while im trying to talk and it's becoming difficult :(

11:02 PM

ADHD makes everything so much difficult and stressful

i don't think im doing it right

11:16 PM

i cant visualize anything

maybe take a moment.

i know it shouldn't be stressful but i can't focus and i don't know if her responses are just ones im imagining

I like to clear my mind by imagining a wave crashing over and washing away my thoughts. If you can’t visualize it, you can still make use of its powerful sound

11:19 PM

also, if you aren’t specifically intentionally thinking it for her, it’s her

11:19 PM

whether it is or not it’ll help for now if you believe it’s her

i get overwhelmed a lot and anxious so i apologize for constantly asking for advice

11:20 PM

i mean i told her she was very pretty and i heard a "thank you" but i didn't know if it was just me imagining it

I’d say that’s her. Her responses come from the same brain as you, so it’s logical why you may feel like you’re making it up.

Sawyerly Sawyer ↩️

Reply to: i mean i told her she was very pretty and i heard a "thank you" but i didn't know if it was just me …

i guess so

11:37 PM

so ive developed a tulpa?

I’d say so yeah

her voice sounded like mine though

Thats fine

it is?

Yeah Still her even if it sounds the same

Kira’s voice sounded a lot like mine. In fact still does, just a little higher.

i decided to watch examples of a different accent to help visualize and differentiate our voices

I prefer going off the “vibe” one gives.

12:04 AM

it’s like a signature ingrained into each thought

12:04 AM

over time you might be able to identify it

alright

12:04 AM

is will it take a while for my tulpa to fully come out?

Depends on the person. But usually yes

tulpamancy is very subjective. I don’t have an answer.

12:05 AM

what do you consider “fully come out”?

Out of the closet as a gay of course

i guess i imagined them not being fully present at first

I guess you can kinda say that

i managed to have a small convo

12:19 AM

i think

12:19 AM

i really do hope im not imagining our interactions

You are, thats the whole point of this

12:19 AM

If you dont imagine it how will you perceive it taking place?

Technically you are You also imagine your own thoughts, yeah?

oop proxy

imagining is just mental perception

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ah, i see

trust that she’s doing her part. Because it is her

Are you making it up? Also yes, thats what imagining is

12:21 AM

Is it her? Yes

The tulpa needs to learn to talk somehow

Sawyerly Sawyer ↩️

Reply to: ah, i see

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12:22 AM

And that is through you parroting/puppetting the tulpa

I I

but it sounds like you’ve got past that and she’s probably talking on her own

SHE SAID HELLO

In general know that you can only parrot on purpose

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very very much this This is important

Lolcery (TTG) ↩️

Reply to: In general know that you can only parrot on purpose

good now keep talking

Sawyerly Sawyer ↩️

Reply to: SHE SAID HELLO

If you did not have the specifiç intention of responding for her (and why would you unless your specifically trying to parrot) it is her

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12:24 AM

Also, if you arent sure, its okay to 'assign' it to her anyways

12:24 AM

I do that with my tulpas sometimes, and they are all over a month old

12:24 AM

One is 1 1/2

12:25 AM

Sometimes we will have thoughts and we arent sure who it is, we just "give" it to whoever it makes the most sense to be

12:26 AM

And thats okay, this is a practice about beliefs

12:26 AM

You believe it is her? Congratulations, it now is

We have so many thoughts that are never labeled as anyone in particular. We’ve had whole ass conversations where we never established who the fuck was even talking. So I don’t think it’s even that big of a deal

It isnt, thats my poiNt!

12:27 AM

We have those moments too

12:28 AM

Or more accurately, it will more often progress to where we no longer know

12:28 AM

Its especially confusing since there is 9 of us

i heard my tulpa(?) rambling in my head last night)

12:49 PM

her voice was a bit higher than mine for some reason and it was odd

12:49 PM

i dont remember what she spoke about

12:49 PM

but it was when i was going to bed

well, if you believe she spoke, she did

i just realized that chizhov doesn't say a lot

5:50 PM

i mean she seems to understand what i say

5:50 PM

but most of her responses are "yea" or "good"

Yea she is young

i think the most she told me was "this song is annoying"

5:51 PM

(i was replaying a song i liked)

She needs time to grow

i tried licking my elbow and she told me it looked ridiculous

Hi! I’m a new tulpamancer. I wanted to know what experienced tulpamancers wish they had known when they started! Im open to suggestions or advice.

A lot of things considering our original didn’t do much (if any) research before jumping in

Oh, Ben made a reddit post all about this.

12:15 AM

I'll share it here, one second.

So, do research, pretty good advice to know what exactly you’re getting into

Gin || Crow’s Nest 3(🏝)0 ↩️

Reply to: A lot of things considering our original didn’t do much (if any) research before jumping in

https://www.reddit.com/r/Tulpas/comments/oh6s0d/comment/jklogo0/?context=3

r/Tulpas - Comment by u/OrdinaryParking8402 on ”Ten things I wish m...

128 votes and 18 comments so far on Reddit

(my first time letting chizhovka front went well / off topic)

This was written by our firs headmate, I'm not too sure how relevant it still is, since it's been two years, but a lot of people seemed to agree with it.

(it was short but my friends were nice)